Divination Offering

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And here is another one. If you have a question, I'll be happy to use geomancy or the tarot about it. That said, keep in mind that divination is like weather forecasting, not a tablet of truth handed down from above, so take the advice I give you through the reading as such. The conditions that divination taps into are also in constant flux, the same as atmospheric pressure and the Moon.

Instructions Please leave your question stated below with a little bit of background about your situation. I would appreciate very much if you replied back to it so that we can both work towards making it useful for you and also for me to refine my divining skills. If you want to know how your week or month or the likes is going to look like or you want to gain insight into a situation, I'll be happy to assist you.

Please note Be sure to ask questions to which you want to know the answer. Also, divination doesn't always tell you about things you already know about, actually, it almost never does! My suggestion is that you question yourself, especially on things that make you think or flinch if any, and consider the points mentioned from a stance of possibility not of confirmation bias or it's diametrical opposite, falsification bias. Any actions taken from the information of the readings are entirely the responsibility of the querent and do not replace nor pretend to be professional legal, medical or psychological counseling.

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Comments

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Thanks Open Space

My Ex was emotionally and physically abusive. Leaving consisted of me snapping and running away to sleep on a friend's couch with our 2 year old son, it's been 3 years since then and I'm doing well and she's in a different city. While I don't hate her it feels accurate to say that there is some bitterness. I wonder if I'm holding on to bitter feelings for her because I don't want to like her, and I want to counteract the emotional bond that will always occur in an intimate relationship.

You talked about pain and fear potentially holding me back, I was a naive homeschooler at uni when I met my ex. She was my first and so far only girlfriend. I'm certainly a bit scared of being burned again. I've been trying to theorise my way to knowing how to make it work through analysis of the masculine and feminine, though I'm well aware that theory without experience is just so much hot air.
I've rationalised what's holding me back as social awkwardness so I need to study how to be and what strengths to develop and emphasise. But from your reading it sounds like that's exactly what's holding me back, when I just need to get out there and screw up when meeting women so that I can learn to succeed with the right one? Does that sound right? 
And "getting out into the world a little bit" makes me think that it doesn't exactly matter where I go, just go new places?

You talk about "doing the things that would make you attractive for it but being cautious about it". As far as I have been able to work out what I think I need to do to be attractive is be confident in my own value and in my manner, while being discerning in what I value in other's (in the sense of not falling for the first woman who gives me her number).

And regarding facing what is holding me back can you tell from the cards if it's that I need to work on certain things more or if it's precisely overthinking and preparing that's holding me back and that I need to just go and "do" instead? ( I suspect the latter )

Thank you very much for your divinatory help in showing me what I need to see.

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