The way I read it was that by recognizing the good also, you leave gracefully and in full recognition of why you are leaving and what you are leaving behind.
Exactly, the point is lowering the stress so that you can make better decisions and have a good panorama of the life you want to get. Remember that stress disables rational thought and makes us act out of a survival instinct. So the message is, zen down son that your moves become more gracious if that makes any sense. Do note, that it is not a suggestion to stay (or to go) bur rather a suggestion to stop, step back and look.
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The way I read it was that by recognizing the good also, you leave gracefully and in full recognition of why you are leaving and what you are leaving behind.
Exactly, the point is lowering the stress so that you can make better decisions and have a good panorama of the life you want to get. Remember that stress disables rational thought and makes us act out of a survival instinct. So the message is, zen down son that your moves become more gracious if that makes any sense. Do note, that it is not a suggestion to stay (or to go) bur rather a suggestion to stop, step back and look.