It seems to be that your partner is looking very much forward into a relationship based on sharing things in a deep level and you are closed off and lost in your inner self. This mix of energies seems to be creating quite a bit of turmoil. My Tarot is recommending that you become more open and generous in your relationship, either emotionally or materially but either way it seems that it will take some work at a higher level to get things back on track.
Do you work too much? If you do, spending more time with her would make her happy. If that's not it. Then there is something else that is related to "moving into new territory" which is what would make he/her happy.
Don't try to win over arguments if those are happening and make yourself more flexible and "try" or at least pretend to understand the other persons stance. Be open and calm, show interest from the other persons stance as if it were yours, and things might improve.
I am happy to do a follow up if you provide more context or have any questions.
Re: El
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It seems to be that your partner is looking very much forward into a relationship based on sharing things in a deep level and you are closed off and lost in your inner self. This mix of energies seems to be creating quite a bit of turmoil. My Tarot is recommending that you become more open and generous in your relationship, either emotionally or materially but either way it seems that it will take some work at a higher level to get things back on track.
Do you work too much? If you do, spending more time with her would make her happy. If that's not it. Then there is something else that is related to "moving into new territory" which is what would make he/her happy.
Don't try to win over arguments if those are happening and make yourself more flexible and "try" or at least pretend to understand the other persons stance. Be open and calm, show interest from the other persons stance as if it were yours, and things might improve.
I am happy to do a follow up if you provide more context or have any questions.